Marital blues....

http://realfantasies.rediffiland.com/iland/realfantasies.html


Sometimes you donno what to ans someone ........you go arnd being or atleast sounding like some big time counsellor (lk i do) offering solutions to all problems in life sounding lk magician to friends but at times you really donno what to say ??
Read the above link and the guy's post and you donno what to say to him...i started to comment at his blog and stopped myself thinking is this the right thing to say?

the guy loves his wife a lot and is somehow tolerating her affair wid someone....even though his wife detests him she wants a baby from him(clueless what on earth for then !!!)....my comment wanted to b simple there's no point having the baby if she is not urs....she should be your's before you both can give your completely to your family that is your baby....

But i stopped thinking whats the point should the guy really compromise and wait??? wait for what isnt the guy having his own life ??
does he not have the right to be happy too?
or he should keep loving and wait fo rhis love to be his even when he kws he could also be loved equally or more by someone else??

My question was damn simple for myself ..
HOW MUCH CHANCE SHOULD YOU GIVE TO YOUR LOVE OR LOVED ONE FOR LETTING HIM/HER PROVE THAT THEY LOVE YOU?
if you cant get a response in love is it valid to keep loving and tolerating insults?
be cheated and decieved again and again??? for what on earth?

anywz all this choice is very personal so i dint put up the comment at all...may b its true "Marriages are made in heaven but lived wid love on earth"

need your views on this...
adios
c ya :)