Friday, 19 December 2008

Smart ways to make Women fall for you !!

Under Promise & Over Deliver:
This is a very famous marketing rule which works equally well with women. Women set quite high standards for themselves and consider every one else beneath them(sorry but i feel its true). To get above her, you need to exceed her expectations. May be thats why when men try to show and do big things for her like: getting her expensive gifts or dinner at some expensive resturant so that it impresses them.
But for a change of fact its not always true. Things like simple cards, being on time for a date or movie, getting her flowers every time you show up, passionate and steamy calls,even taking her
out on long drives would bring you up in the priority list etc. Its simple dont promise her you would so many things for her or such big things for her just take her by surprise. Just do simple but innovative things true love appreciate creativity than so called BIG things.

Praising & Noticing Her:
Most women would like to receive the most attention from their partner. Tell her how much you appreciate her feelings her looks her values etc. Tell people about how amazing and
beautiful you find her esp when she isnt so confident about herself.This will make her feel that you value her even when she isnt at her best.
On a regular basis too, you should keep on telling her that how different she is from others, what is the reason that you fall for her. Women like to hear what their partner thinks of them. They like to be noticed.Thats a hidden fact they would say they dont like attention but see them blush when you praise her!!! Thus simple acts of noticing her can make you two get closer to one another.

SHOW what YOU feel for her:
Showing a woman what you feel for her can get her spinning in your arms. If you wear your heart on sleeves be honest, it can almost be guaranteed that she would do the same. Sharing intimate feelings always helps. Showing your gal, how badly you want her will inspire her more and will open her up in front of you.Tell her that how desperate you have been to meet her.Tell her how important she is dont lie for this please "Women can truly catch true praises and lies" .If you honestly mean it then this can make you win more than half of the battle.

Take her in your life:
This does not mean that you cannot do the guy’s stuff. You simply need to involve her in the acts that you do, in the decisions that you take. Making her feel honored and a part of your life can get her right in there. Some little acts like asking her to participate in certain decisions you
take, discussing some important facts of your life, introducing her as your girl admist your friends or holding her hand in front of them etc.

Get some originality and some humor:
Women hate when men copy. However, if you come up with something original and special for her, I am sure she would get crazy for you. Set up some innovative ideas for her birthday, your date or any evening outing and see the magic happening. Be creative dont be mechanical thinking of gifting her so and so would impress her not so happening idea dear rather she
count you up in the same plate as other guys have been so if wanna go up the priority list be creative think "Hatke".Cracking little funny jokes is essential thats not only to lighten the atmosphere around you but also because girls hate nerds!! they hate people who only talk about themselves or only about work or sorta only about any one particular thing so if you cant talk about variety of things try some jokes ;) easy.
Making your girl laugh is stupendous, But yap be careful DONT CRACK JOKES ON YOUR GIRL just put some crazy jokes she will find you lovely.

Listening out her and reassuring her:
Just be listening her side of the story, you can become the most sought after man. Put your eyes and ears to what she has to say, respond positively (no blame game please) and IF REQUIRED advise her. I put it in caps bz many men will advise unnecessarily even when not asked here it depends on the kind of problem your girl has and the kind of girl she is if she is facing some very serious problem and she cant find a way outta it you will find that on her face she is afraid advise her then n help her, if the problems are petty something like you feel she
can handle like some regular office stuff etc give her strength n tell her im sure you can handle this. WOMEN LIKE MEN WHO MAKE THEM FEEL CONFIDENT.So Removing all her fears and insecurity and this would get a boomerang effect.

I am sure there are many more ideas and after this it will all depend if your girl is different but i believe these are some basic things that would work for every girl but again "Please be honest about everything" if you keep trying all this and you arent being honest may be then you are not honest either to yourself or to your girl.
try this and lemme kw

Tuesday, 16 December 2008

Marital blues....

Sometimes you donno what to ans someone go arnd being or atleast sounding like some big time counsellor (lk i do) offering solutions to all problems in life sounding lk magician to friends but at times you really donno what to say ??
Read the above link and the guy's post and you donno what to say to him...i started to comment at his blog and stopped myself thinking is this the right thing to say?

the guy loves his wife a lot and is somehow tolerating her affair wid someone....even though his wife detests him she wants a baby from him(clueless what on earth for then !!!) comment wanted to b simple there's no point having the baby if she is not urs....she should be your's before you both can give your completely to your family that is your baby....

But i stopped thinking whats the point should the guy really compromise and wait??? wait for what isnt the guy having his own life ??
does he not have the right to be happy too?
or he should keep loving and wait fo rhis love to be his even when he kws he could also be loved equally or more by someone else??

My question was damn simple for myself ..
if you cant get a response in love is it valid to keep loving and tolerating insults?
be cheated and decieved again and again??? for what on earth?

anywz all this choice is very personal so i dint put up the comment at all...may b its true "Marriages are made in heaven but lived wid love on earth"

need your views on this...
c ya :)

Monday, 15 December 2008

Luscious Lips

I dont really apply a lot of make up but today was a birthday of my friend sonia who unofficially yells at my blog :D ...something that i got curious about all girls there was how their lips looked like well obviously they all looked lovely but i was trying to focus lk whats on a face that steals the show i personally feel they are your eyes and your lips (esp when you talk people do unknowingly look at how you open your mouth tats in instinct notice when you see somebody talking or explaining something you would suddenly feel like concentrating on other person's lips patially though ..n thats natural bz you need to understand what the other one says) all in all i was chking out what lips should look like..

I came back home realised my lip balm is my best friend for my lips keeps it soft and adds a partial colour thats not like excess of glossy lipstick.
But thats for people like me who evade makeup ther are lots people who find it gud to put up lotsa glossy stuff on there lips ...
So i got back home and assigned myself some work sort to find out what kinda lips and what makeup or Lip Care do they need ... Think Angelina tonight ;) see this now

Full lips(God gifted !! ): Angelina Jolie style Lucky you! You have lips that some women would kill for. No lip plumpers needed your way as they're already full looking. If you have really full lips and want to play them down(for some proffessional look!! for what else on earth would you want to play them down ??), opt for darker colours, and when using lip liner, line just inside the lips.

Thin lips: Courteney Cox Arquette style Just as the name applies, these lips are thin on top and bottom. To avoid making your lips look too thin, stick with light to medium shades, and dot some gloss or iridescent powder on the middle of the bottom lip to make it look fuller.

Thin on top, full on bottom: Heidi Klum style You've got a little of both — think Angelina meets Courteney. If you want to make them appear more even, try lining just inside the bottom lip, and just outside the top lip. You can also try using a slightly darker lip shade on the bottom, and applying a little gloss to the top only.

Tip: using lip pencil to make your lips look bigger, or more even, is a common make-up trick. But note: it's only useful if wanting to alter the appearance of your lips slightly — colouring too far outside the lines can look fake.

For the Eye wait next Time :)